All men are trash sounds a lot like I’ve let losers in my life.
We all know the saying “Good guys, finish last” but why does it that happen so often please? Let’s look deeper ….!!!
The definition of ‘good’ before we get into the blog;
to be desired or approved of.“it’s good that he’s back to his old self”
having the required qualities; of a high standard.“a good restaurant”
Having the required qualities of a high standard, interesting? So why do the good guys, finish last then?
In my opinion, women want the wasteman, drug dealer, the bad boy, or the guy with ‘status’ and then come with ‘Men are trash’. So I think to myself, “Jason, you need to be more of a complete player, player! Put women down. Don’t treat them with respect. Learn to not holla at them, play games. Yeah, that’ll work.”
However, guess what happens if I want to try that? Like Skepta said “That’s not me.” So what do I do? Treat women with lots of respect. It’s what they deserve right?
Your ability to choose wisely is YOUR downfall! Don’t blame anyone else but yourself! Not all men are trash. Ladies, can you imagine being compatible with a bad guy? I bet a lot of you can but of course not, that makes no sense! So, of course, the guy you’ll get with is compatible with you, which in turn should be a good guy, in one way, shape or form, no?
Nevertheless, I’ll stick to the principles that my parents raised me. A guy who respects himself and people in general. I shouldn’t have to change myself to please anyone let alone women who can’t see what I can offer them in a relationship! Go get with these dweebs, who treat you with no respect, cheats, and lowers your self-esteem and confidence.
Women have a crazy thought / unrealistic process and thinking when it comes to relationships. Why’d you friend zone a dude and then start dating a guy that’s an asshole and try and change him to act like the dude you friend-zoned? Is it me or is that stupid as hell? (You all know what I think of ‘hell’) It seems women pick men based on what they can picture him being after she molds him to be how she wants. Dumbest things I can think of. Maybe it’s a challenge for them and one that usually ends in heartache and tears flowing down from their face but all men are trash, right?
I also find that women love to hear thoughts on what certain guys are like from their family and friends. Brah! ONLY you should be able to see certain qualities that will make YOU happy! You never know, that same friend could be looking for those qualities that they’re dismissing to you and end with that guy and live happily.
If they ever do try and come back in your life and finally see your qualities, believe this and it’s a fundamental thing that women do especially!
If you’re in the friend zone and she suddenly shows an interest in you this means that all the guy(s) who originally wanted, didn’t want her! Let her go bruh! Or she’s lonely and remembered how you felt you first tried to make a move. Let her go bruh! Let her go! Am I speaking too loud for you?
If you’re a good guy at heart, you’re good. You treat people well? Embrace it — it’s a great quality to have. Don’t hide it by playing games and trying to be a bad boy. Don’t be good just to get a woman to like you. It never works. To get there, you have to truly believe it. You have to live your life in a way that you truly want and not give it up just to make your date happy. You have to know that you are a great, interesting person to be with.
Looking for a ‘bad bitch’ (clichéd urban lyrics) isn’t my portion, I was with one for a very long time and mentally effed me up. So again why would I want that type of a woman? Give me a Michelle Obama over a Rihanna/Nicki Minaj all day, every day!
A BAD one was a mistake on my path because of the DREAMS and signs I had received. But I won’t be blaming all women because of one CHEATING scumbag, who was acting like a LADY OF THE NIGHT. There’s more to LIFE and I am all about TURNING MY NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES. So if you’re about this ‘ALL MEN ARE TRASH’ movement. WHAT THE HELL! GOODBYE with your FAKE self and grow up. Your TBT experiences with wastemans aren’t every guy’s fault. If you’ve been messed about by 5 BY 5 guys then look within yourself. Something might be wrong with you and your type. Go ABROAD ALONE and be COMFY ON YOUR ONES during your WEEK OFF. But WHO AM I to say anything.