3 months ago, I did a blog “ I am comfy on my ones ” It was just something to lighten the mood after starting this website with a piece that I knew I’d get some heat for. But I am back to discuss the topic but more in depth.
I hope you all enjoy and take away something from it.
It’s deep if you don’t know your purpose on earth and why you’re here. What was your reason for your birth? If you don’t know that then you have a nerve. You got to know what channels to serve. You got to know that your life is worth.
God made you as a diamond. He wants to see you bling. He doesn’t want to see you having these doubts about yourself. You can still make mistakes but you got to make sure you stay with Him. Walk every day on the road with Him. Listen to the best of who you are. The voice that always reminds you that you are powerful, loving and have nothing to fear. You are a person who has so many wonderful things to give to this world. If you don’t believe it as yet, then believe me. I am here to tell you, it’s absolutely true.
Self-love is food for the body, mind and soul and do not forget to eat it regularly. The most negative thing you can do is to let your lower self-berate you for not doing it ‘right’ or fast enough or whatever! The most positive thing you can do is pat every little step you take. You’re on the right path. Be patient knowing a greater is building within you. Patience is knowing growth will happen and giving it time to happen. Notice that flower blooms when it’s ready to bloom!
Everything that is happening right now is happening for a reason. Things aren’t always going to look pretty, or feel comfortable, or even seem necessary. Just have enough faith not to quit, understand that things work out and when they’re supposed to. Use everything that happens to you and around you as tools to help build you, the good and the bad. Don’t allow temporary circumstances to cloud your vision. Realise the testing of your faith is to produce patience, and the power in patience gives us the will to be preserved. That will promise us not just success but peace and joy. Don’t run from the struggle, it’s there to make you stronger. Don’t be moved by fear, your faith can take you beyond it.
If you keep avoiding self-love the universe will keep sending you people who also avoid loving you, hoping you get a little clue. Beware of destination addiction: The idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job or even the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it’ll never be where you are. Don’t let your thoughts of an ex-trick you into believing you haven’t moved on. Memories of our ‘Ex’periences are fundamental to growth.
Difficult roads often lead to awesome destinations. Let go of everything you didn’t do right. Or the negative things people have said and focus on all you are becoming. It’s not selfish to put yourself first now. In order to serve others best you have to put your wellbeing first. Those who always put people first before themselves aren’t heroes. One day you’ll wake up every morning with the love of your life and you’ll run your staircase to get them a Supermalt from your fridge and everything will be alright.
When thinking about life, remember this: No amount of guilt can change the past. No amount of anxiety can change the future. Invest in your dream. Grind now. Shine later.